Memang tidak mudah untuk bersikap tegas (bagi beberapa orang).![](data:image/jpeg;base64,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)
Alasannya bisa bermacam-macam: tidak tega, kasihan, lebih baik dikasih kesempatan, dll.. Ada beberapa orang yang bisa dengan mudah, terutama saat berkata, mencerminkan sikap yang tegas. Pendengar pun seolah-olah merasa 'merinding' saat mendengarkan perkataannya. Tapi, ada juga orang yang berjuang setengah mati untuk bisa bersikap tegas.